This symbolically carved gravestone is dedicated to eight people

• The oak leaves and acorn symbolise a steadfast and enduring individual.

• The roses or other flowers are a symbol of immortality

• Blackberries God's voice and divine love.

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The gravestone is eroded and pitted in places so the inscription is not very legible in places. Enough of the epitaph is discernible to ascertain it is  from the first book of Thessalonians 4:14.

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Robert Miller was born to George and Lydia Miller (nee Tinsley) in 1797, the eldest of their eight children. He was baptised at Beaulieu church on 30th December 1897. He married Charity West who was 20 years old on 10th May 1826 at Boldre church.

Robert and Charity had eight children between 1826 and 1845. Four died as children and are commemorated on this gravestone but buried at Tooting Graveney church.

• Eliza (age 5) was buried on 31st May 1847

• Walter Jacob was baptised at Tooting Graveney church on 18th Fenruary 1848 and was buried there just a week later on 26th February 1848. Robert is a policeman in 1848 according to Walter's baptismal record.Walter's death records give him as 1 month old when he died rather than the 9 months shown on this gravestone.

• Elizabeth (age 18) was baptised on 5th June 1830 at Beaulieu Church. She was buried 10th August 1849

• Lydia (aged 8) was buried on 18th May 1849.​​

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​​Charity was also buried on 31st May 1850 at Tooting Graveney church. ​

The 1851 census shows Robert, a 49 year old police constable, living with three of their children in Tooting Graveney (Harriet 17, William 13, Robert 6). Robert was buried at the chapel on 24th July 1854 by the Rev John Barlett Burt. 

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Robert's brother John was George and Lydia's fifth child who was baptised at Beaulieu church on 17th July 1808.  John, a shoemaker, married Charlotte Luffman (nee Munday), a widow,  in Lymington church in August 1837.

By 1841 the couple lived in Georges Row, Portsea but Charlotte died in 1846. In 1851 John lived in Grigg St. Portsea and the Pearson family lodged with him.

John married Eliza Colenutt (the sister of his brother Peter's wife, Patience) in 1859 and they lived in King St., Portsea. John died 2 years later; we have been unable to find where he is actually buried as he is not registered at either of Portsea graveyards.

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A fifth child of Robert and Charity, Harriet, is commemorated here. In 1851 she was living with her father in Tooting Graveney and In 1861 she was in service to the Pennington family in Clapham. The gravestones say she was buried at Tooting, so far we have been unable to find a record of this.​